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ENDLESS POLY SUMMER: 2019 Program<\/h1>\n

ORIENTATION & JUMPSTARTING INTIMACY\u00a0 <\/strong>with\u00a0Dawson Driver<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s find out who\u2019s here and what we have to offer each other! We\u2019ll spend much of the time moving around, meeting new folks and deepening existing relationships. Here we will learn about each other, camp, and the land we will share for the coming week. Participants can engage with the group and get quick, direct feedback on issues they care about. We\u2019ll also have time to go deeper in one-on-one connections. This is a quick, fun, easy way to lay the groundwork for our time together, get a sense of the group and the facilities, and get to know each other!<\/p>\n

Dawson’s Bio<\/a><\/p>\n

SNUGGLE PARTY<\/strong> with Indigo Dawn <\/strong><\/p>\n

Together, we will open up a playground to explore consensual, platonic touch in community. \u00a0Nurturing touch has been shown to release compounds (i.e. oxytocin) which help lower blood pressure, heart rate, and cortisol levels, and contribute to feelings of connection and emotional well-being. No one is required to touch another person in this workshop; you\u2019re welcome to talk, cuddle, read a book, or observe\u2013 observation is full participation.<\/p>\n

Indigo’s Bio<\/a><\/p>\n

CONNECTION PODS – Daily<\/strong><\/h6>\n

Every day\u00a0 at 12:30 PM we\u2019ll gather with our own unique “Connection Pod,”– a small, intimate group\u00a0 in which we have opportunity to share what’s going for us and hear what’s alive for others.<\/p>\n

CREATING OUR CULTURE OF LOVE AND FREEDOM – Saturday Morning<\/strong><\/p>\n

In this workshop, we will begin to lay the cultural groundwork for our time together at Winter Poly Wonderland.\u00a0 We will discuss our intentions for the event, meet & connect with our \u201cpods\u201d or family groups, and make\u00a0 space for all the wondrous things that camp may bring!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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BOUNDARIES: FINDING THE SWEET SPOT\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>with Indigo Dawn<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mmm, that glorious moment when we are giving exactly what our partner wants to be receiving! Sometimes we find that \u201csweet spot\u201d spontaneously\u2014but more often, we find it through clear communication and feedback.\u00a0 How many of us say \u201cyes\u201d to things we don\u2019t actually want out of guilt or a fear of losing connection?\u00a0 In many ways, \u201cno\u201d is the most daring and intimate response possible \u2013 if I can hear your \u201cno\u201d, I can trust your \u201cyes.\u201d\u00a0 Let\u2019s practice finding that sweet spot of mutual \u201cyes\u201d \u2014through a series of juicy experiential exercises we\u2019ll offer and\/or request touch, negotiate the touch we want, and give verbal and nonverbal feedback on the touch we receive.\u00a0 This practice will serve us well in both sensual and non-sensual contexts, helping us find the space of mutually desired connection that is available with each person.<\/p>\n

Indigo’s Bio<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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RELATIONSHIPS WITHOUT DRAMA<\/strong>\u00a0with Michael Rios<\/strong><\/p>\n

What would relationship, family, community be like if everyone realized that their feelings were theirs to channel as they chose? What if every surge of emotion was seen as an invitation to connect with their deepest self and rise to a new level of awareness and love? What if our happiness no longer depended on others? The more we do our own personal work, the more available and loving we are in the moment. We no longer cling to rules and impose agreements that we hope will keep our intimates from triggering painful emotions in us; we welcome those emotions, work through them, and delight in our connections whatever form they might take.<\/p>\n

Michael\u2019s Bio<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

ZEGG FORUM – Daily<\/strong><\/p>\n

We\u2019ll be using the ZEGG Forum daily to bring out what\u2019s under the surface in our community.\u00a0 Forum (http:\/\/www.zegg-forum.org\/index_en.phtml<\/a>)\u00a0was created at ZEGG, an intentional community in Germany, and its sister communities as a way of promoting transparency and mutual understanding among community members.\u00a0 ZEGG members found that decision-making meetings often got derailed because of emotional conflicts and undercurrents that were not known to or understood by all.\u00a0 In Forum, each individual\u2019s experience could be seen and understood, leading to greater empathy and creativity in the community.\u00a0 Now, many residential and non-residential intentional communities have adopted Forum as a way to maintain ongoing connection, intimacy and understanding.<\/p>\n

The goal of Forum is to reveal what is alive but not known to all.\u00a0 The community sits in a circle, forming a stage for one person at a time to stand and show what is true for them.\u00a0 Facilitators may assist the person (or \u201cpresenter\u201d) to reveal themselves more deeply.\u00a0 Afterward, community members may offer reflections, or \u201cmirrors,\u201d on what they saw.<\/p>\n

One of the gifts of ZEGG Forum is that it allows us a space to appreciate every perspective without taking it on as \u201ctruth.\u201d Every voice has its own poignancy, its own wisdom, its own truth, that does not negate the wisdom and truth of other perspectives. Allowing all voices to surface and be known can lead to a profound and unexpected integration within a community. We tend to think that events leading to painful experiences and conflicts are bad, because they feel bad in the moment. However, when we open ourselves and compassionately witness what is happening for everyone, these experiences can be gateways to greater closeness, understanding, and love. When conflict emerges, whether or not we are in a formal Forum space, we can choose to listen in this way.\u00a0 This deep listening sustains and nurtures community life and relationships.<\/p>\n

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SAFE, SEXY SEX<\/strong>\u00a0with Michael Rios – Saturday Evening<\/strong><\/p>\n

Up-to-date scientifically and medically sound information on how to manage health issues for anyone who has multiple sexual partners\u2013including how we can have *safe* sex, not just \u201csafer\u201d sex. We cover specific techniques, brands, and concepts that allow responsible sex without damaging pleasure or intimacy.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Michael’s Bio<\/a><\/p>\n

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SENSUAL SPACE \u2013 Open Saturday,\u00a0 Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday Evenings<\/strong><\/p>\n

The Sensual Space is a place for structured and unstructured education and exploration of sensual and sexual issues.\u00a0 This space is a resource for those who wish to make use of it; none of the core workshops will take place in the Sensual Space.\u00a0 There will be an orientation for people interested in using the Sensual Space\u00a0on Saturday<\/span> evening.<\/p>\n

SENSUAL SPACE ORIENTATION\u00a0<\/b>with Dawson Driver – Saturday Evening<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

The Sensual Space is a warm and inviting space to explore Connection & Intimacy by engaging all of the senses. This is a space to lounge together after spending the day learning communication and intimacy tools \u2013 the perfect place to practice communication and share affection in a relaxed and sex positive atmosphere.\u00a0 We will give an introduction to the space and we will practice the \u201cSafe Sex Elevator Speech.\u201d<\/p>\n

After the Playspace Orientation, those who wish will proceed to the Playspace for its official opening.\u00a0 All are invited to explore the Playspace \u2013 the opening activities will be sensual but nonsexual, and the Playspace Team will create a clear transition when the space becomes open for sexual connection<\/p>\n

SENSUAL SPACE OPENING – Saturday Late<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

The Sensual Space\u00a0 is a warm and inviting space to explore connection & intimacy by engaging all of the senses. This is a space to lounge together after spending the day learning communication and intimacy tools – the perfect place to practice communication and share affection in a relaxed and sex positive atmosphere.\u00a0 Sarah will give an introduction to the space and we will practice the \u201cSafe Sex Elevator Speech.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

After the Sensual Space Orientation, those who wish will proceed to the Space\u00a0for its official opening.\u00a0 All are invited to explore the Sensual Space \u2013 the opening activities will be sensual but nonsexual, and there will be a clear transition when the space becomes open for sexual connection.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

MORNING CIRCLE – Daily<\/strong><\/h6>\n

Every morning\u00a0we\u2019ll gather for appreciations, announcements, and connection.\u00a0 Also, each person will have a brief opportunity (but not a requirement) to check in and share \u201cwhere they are at.\u201d<\/p>\n

GOING DEEPER – Daily<\/strong><\/h6>\n

Over the years we\u2019ve been building a culture that supports intimacy by teaching skills for healthy boundaries, handling painful emotions, holding space for others\u2019 process, and so on. Now it\u2019s time to take it to the next level. When the need arises to give difficult feedback or address something that\u2019s getting in the way of getting close to another person, many times we still let it go, not wanting to ruin a happy moment or create a rift. But in reality, we\u2019re keeping ourselves from intimacy when we could have it. When we\u2019re willing to tell another person what\u2019s keeping us from getting closer, we actually get closer.<\/p>\n

In the \u201cGoing Deeper\u201d spaces, we\u2019ll have a chance to share difficult truths, intimate appreciations, and vulnerable parts or ourselves. Let\u2019s get beyond this kind of sharing being an extraordinary experience, to where it\u2019s an ordinary everyday thing. Every day we deepen our connections. Consider the possibility that we have no idea who our closest friends could be once we start sharing at this level. We have no idea what could happen when we really give our relationships our deepest attention.<\/p>\n

POLYAMORY SKILLSHARE – Sunday and Monday Afternoon<\/strong><\/h6>\n

New to polyamory? Got questions? \u201cOld hand\u201d at polyamory? Got answers? Join us for this daily skillshare on the promises and perils of diving into ethical, loving non-monogamy! Poly Skill Share will explore many techniques for enhancing our abilities to have rich, satisfying, and durable relationships.<\/p>\n

8 POLY TOOLS – Dan Belum & Dawn Williams – Sunday Afternoon<\/strong><\/p>\n

Join Dan & Dawn, authors of\u00a0The Polyamory Toolkit<\/a>, as for an advanced class that gives participants tools to break free of the patterns and attitudes that keep us trapped in discomfort, fear, unhappiness and jealousy. No theorizing or quoting from scholarly viewpoints \u2013 get into the weeds and put the tools to work!<\/p>\n

Dan & Dawn’s Bio<\/a><\/p>\n

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AUTHENTIC RELATING GAMES\u00a0with<\/strong> Dawson Driver – Sunday Evening<\/strong><\/p>\n

Who are you? Who am I? Who are we? In this high-energy, interactive workshop, we\u2019ll find out more about the thoughts, feelings, and experiences of everyone present. We\u2019ll explore curiosity and transparency as attitudes and practices that support healthy relationships, whether with lovers, friends, co-workers, or community members. We\u2019ll have some short, fun exercises where people can try out sharing about themselves transparently and asking questions based on curiosity.\u00a0 Our time together will develop our empathy, deepen our relationships, and help us connect as our most authentic selves.<\/p>\n

Dawson’s Bio<\/a><\/p>\n

POLYAMORY CHANGE MANAGEMENT with Dan and Dawn – Monday Morning<\/strong><\/h6>\n

Change is inevitable, essential, but also, risky and can be scary! Join Dan & dawn, authors of\u00a0The Polyamory Toolkit<\/a>, as they explore and provide tools around change! When a new person enters or a new person leaves; levels of desire and need; and even hobbies and interest. Things do change; pick up some strategies to go with the flow!<\/p>\n

Dan & Dawn’s Bio<\/a><\/p>\n

ECSTATIC DANCE with Indigo Dawn – Monday Afternoon<\/b><\/h6>\n

\u201cNobody cares if you can\u2019t dance well. Just get up and dance. Great dancers are great because of their passion.\u201d \u2015\u00a0Martha Graham<\/strong><\/a>. \u00a0Whether you\u2019ve danced all your life or never set foot on a dance floor\u2013 come express yourself with radically accepting, loving community! \u00a0\u00a0In this space, all forms of expression are welcome\u2013 from yoga, to laughter, to shaking, to rest. All bodies, movements, emotions, and sounds are welcome\u2026 in our Dance Playground.<\/p>\n

Indigo’s Bio<\/a><\/p>\n

CLOSING CIRCLE \u2013 Wednesday morning<\/strong><\/h6>\n

Honoring the experience of the past six days, we will connect, reflect, and bid farewell to this incarnation of our community.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

ENDLESS POLY SUMMER: 2019 Program ORIENTATION & JUMPSTARTING INTIMACY\u00a0 with\u00a0Dawson Driver Let\u2019s find out who\u2019s here and what we have to offer each other! We\u2019ll spend much of the time moving around, meeting new folks and deepening existing relationships. Here we will learn about each other, camp, and the land we will share for the … <\/p>\n

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